I Bought A House. She’s 135 Years Old.
Yes, you read that right—circa 1885! She’s a true gem, but after years of neglect, she needs some serious care and updates. While I’ve found my community, I want my home to be the hub—a place for big dinner parties, intimate conversations, and dog. Lots of dogs.. A home with an ever-revolving door, filled with light, laughter, and beauty.
But, like most new homeowners, after that down payment is made and a few urgent repairs are handled (hello, new roof), you settle into the space and ask yourself, “What the F**K did I just do? The rose colored glasses come off and it’s like a haunted house!
Friends, I hate my kitchen. Hate it. Sure, I’ve replaced the old appliances. But the linoleum floors are horrendous, and the Formica countertops—a bizarre mottled brown—are impossible to tell if they’re dirty, so I’m constantly scrubbing. The whole thing screams at me daily for a redo. And yes, I laugh because I am my own worst client!
Let’s not forget the bathroom, which is literally the size of a hall closet and definitely not up to code. The toilet is 11 inches from the vanity! My partner, who’s 6’3” and 240 lbs, practically had to crawl through the glass shower doors. I eventually removed the doors because I was afraid he might get stuck in there!
The struggle is real. But here’s the thing: even if you’re dreaming of a remodel (and embarrassed by certain parts of your home), here’s what you can do to make your home as inviting as possible.
Plants! Real ones are most preferred as they bring life to a space, clean the air inside your home and bring the outdoors in.
Art. I am known for putting art everywhere and this is my same advice to you! Love your family photos? Have them printed in sepia tone or black and white. They create a more artistic impression and regardless of subject, feel cohesive. If you’re early on in your art collection, consider university MFA shows. Emerging artists are wonderful makers, have lower price points, and you get to support a creative! If you know an artist but their current works are pricey, ask about prints. Many offer limited editions of their work for a lower price point. Depending on your aesthetic, framed album covers are a great way to display your love of music and cool art pieces. Craft fairs, Etsy are also great sources of original art. If you’re into collecting, Britebard Fine Arts and SLate Art Gallery are great Bay Area options. Saatchi is great for everywhere; they are an online gallery. Frame your kids’ art or make something meaningful to you. But no blank walls!!!!
And when you are ready to remodel, ask yourself some important questions:
Do I have the creativity, time, and bandwidth to take on this project myself?
Do I have the funds to hire a designer? (Hint: Designers like me offer a range of price points to ensure an expert is involved in your project.)
How much will it cost me in mistakes or lack of experience? Often, it’s the same or more than hiring a designer.
Am I prepared for the extended time and costs due to indecision, changes, or lack of planning if I’m managing everything myself—from materials to contractors to decisions I may not know how to make?
If you’re not sure what feels right, book a call. In 15 minutes, we can strategize about what’s right for you.